"We spend January 1st walking through our lives, room by room, drawing up a list of work to be done, cracks to be patched. Maybe this year, to balance the list, we ought to walk through the rooms of our lives, not looking for flaws but for potential."  Ellen Goodman Every year, many of us resolve to make changes in our lives, but change can be difficult. Even the most dedicated of us need a little support in working through…